Thursday, December 13, 2012

In Which I Try to Decode the Language of Love

I can't even write about the shit show that was last night... Maybe later.

One of the things that I've been thinking about lately is the difference between how my husband and I express love. So, while I'm not sleeping tonight, I thought that it would be fun to clearly define ways that make me feel loved.


  • When making your way home, ask me if I need anything from the store. If I do, get the stuff without complaint.
  • Pick out something from the store that you think I would like - then surprise me with it. It could even be something like "Look honey, I got you this jar of peanutbutter, I know it's your fav!"
  • Do chores around the house for the sole reason that you know that I am a busy lady and you want to help out and take care of me.
  • When I'm upset, fix me food or a snack. It's not the type of food that matters, it's the "I want to take care of my wife" mentality that makes a sick person feel better.
  • Write down that you love me and occasionally give them to me.
  • Take the initiative to fix some of our problems, personal or household. I guarantee I will be proud of you .
I see a theme here. 

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